Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Aaron & Megan

Well, this Friday is the big day! Justin's brother Aaron is getting married! Megan's mom asked me to write their story for the display table at the reception with all their pictures. So I thought I'd share it on here too! We could not be more excited for the two of them!

Aaron was fourteen years old. His eyes were wide open, ready for all the new experiences and adventures that the week would bring on the campus of Emory University that summer in 2001. He had come to attend 'Especially for Youth' or EFY as everyone called it. Aaron had always been a kid that loved to talk, meet new people and socialize. So as he stood there watching all the new people come and go around him he knew he was going to have a week to remember. What he didn't know though, as he watched a pretty, young blonde girl climbing out of her Dad's red truck, was just exactly how important she would be in his future.


It turned out her name was Megan and she was in his very same Stake back home. They shared a little 'EFY Crush' and even held hands that week on Emory's campus. They found themselves liking each other as they got to know one another and continued their newfound friendship even after the week ended and they returned home. Aaron admired the type of girl that Megan was. She was unlike all the other girls out there in the typical teenage scene that he had come across. She was beautiful and classy. He said looking at her one might think she would be high-maintenance. But she wasn't at all. All she had to do was flash her brilliant smile and open her mouth to speak and you knew in an instant, she was different. She was so comfortable to be around and fun and down-to-earth. When she turned sixteen and was allowed to date, he had hoped that he could take her out. He soon discovered that other boys found her to be a lot of fun too and found himself with a lot of competition. He always thought to himself though, that he would like to marry a girl just like her someday, even if he never did get the chance with her.


After they graduated from high school, their lives went their separate ways a little. Megan moved to Utah to attend Brigham Young University to major in Dance. Aaron stayed in Georgia, attending Kennesaw State University and worked to save for his mission. When he received his call to serve in the Lima Peru North Mission, Aaron was excited and ready to go serve the Lord for the next two years of his life. Missionary work was rewarding and kept him busy. Being the outgoing, adaptable guy that he is, he adjusted well to being in a new country, with a new language. But there was one bright spot of familiarity that he always looked forward to. Letters from his friend, Megan, the girl he admired so much. Aaron embarrassedly admitted that he read into every little exclamation point or heart she wrote in those letters. Hoping beyond hope, that maybe, just maybe she would still be around after he returned home, so he could finally get a chance at dating her.


As fate would have it, he did get that chance. When he returned home to the States in early November 2007, one of the first welcome things he heard was her voice on the phone. She was in Utah, but would be coming home for Thanksgiving. They both couldn't wait to finally see each other after the years apart. Megan decided that she would surprise Aaron by coming home a day early. Aaron was sitting in his parent's kitchen when she pulled up in the driveway. His Dad told him to look out the door and there she was, standing there smiling.


They hit it off all over again. Megan had to return to Utah for school though after the break and they soon found themselves, once again, with many miles between them. This time though, letters were replaced with long phone conversations. They found themselves not just hitting it off, but undeniably falling in love with one another. Aaron said after saying his long-distance good-byes to her one night, he sat silent and still for about ten minutes, just absorbing just how much he loved her. In January 2008, Aaron moved out to Utah to be near Megan and attend school. He had wondered before leaving Georgia if all of these feelings and emotions could be real. Was it just a romanticized, long-distance relationship? Was she really the one he wanted to spend the rest of his life with? The day he got to Utah and saw her again in person, it was reconfirmed to him immediately, this was the girl.


So on January 31st after watching her performance at her dance recital, he greeted her with a dozen roses and a smile. He kept her guessing as they drove around Provo as to exactly what he was up to. He pulled into the empty BYU football stadium parking lot and asked Megan if she felt like dancing. It was freezing outside, but Megan being the good sport she is, consented and they hopped out into the frigid, night air. Aaron opened all the car doors and blared their song, "Some Say" by Rascal Flats from the car stereo. They danced around the blacktop together, the only two people there. As Aaron spun Megan around, he quickly fell to one knee and grabbed the pearl engagement ring he had bought her. When she spun back towards him, she was shocked to see him kneeling there, ring outstretched. He asked for her hand in marriage, and she cried in shock. She stared at him and at the pearl ring on her finger. It was just what she had always wanted. Her own name, Megan meant pearl, and she had always had a special love for them. It was appropriate in Aaron's mind that a pearl ring was what she wanted. They were like her, beautiful, classic, and unique. Now here was one on her finger and it was from the man she loved. Aaron stood there in the cold waiting for a response to his question, "Will you marry me?" He asked her if she was going to answer him! She snapped back to reality and excitedly told him "Yes!" throwing her arms around him. They had finally found a way to be together and this time it was forever.


Who could have known as that young man stood watching that pretty, blonde hop out of her Dad's truck that summer day so many years ago, and all the space, time and circumstances that happened between then and now, that Megan and Aaron would end up being joined as husband and wife for time and all eternity. Like the line from their song "Someday we'll look back and say it wasn't just a dream." Looks like this one really came true.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Jacob Silj

For those of you that know my kids, may or may not know that they suffer from a condition brought to Justin's and my attention through the hilarious comedy of Will Ferrell. What I am speaking of people is, Voice Immodulation Disorder. They were having a particularly pronounced bout of it this weekend. So what is Voice Immodualation Disorder, you may ask?

I have to tell you I searched the Internet high and low for a clip of the Weekend Update, Mr. Ferrell was on when he did this character. It was not to be found. Sniff. But it is HILARIOUS people! Go rent Will Ferrell's best of SNL and watch it. I did find the transcript where Jacob explains his disease. It really does not do it justice though. You just have to see it, but here it goes anyway. Just imagine a really loud, shout-talking voice and you'll get the idea...

Jacob Silj: LISTEN, COLIN, I HAVE A DISEASE! ... I SUFFER FROM VOICE IMMODULATION! ... I'M UNABLE TO CONTROL THE VOLUME OR INFLECTION OF MY VOICE! ... THIS IS NOT "SHOUTING" -- IT IS TALKING!

Colin Quinn: It's just-- Couldn't you take a deep breath, lower your voice?

Jacob Silj: HOW DARE YOU?! I CANNOT DO THAT! I HAVE AN AFFLICTION THAT IS RECOGNIZED BY THE AMERICAN MEDICAL ASSOCIATION AND ITS BRITISH COUNTERPART! EVERY YEAR, AS MANY AS SIX PEOPLE ARE STRICKEN BY THIS HORRIBLE ... HORRIBLE DISEASE! IT COULD STRIKE ANYONE AT ANY TIME -- PROVIDED THEY WERE BORN AT LEAST TWO MONTHS LATE AND HAVE BEEN EXPOSED TO GOLD DUST! ...

Colin Quinn: [amused disbelief] Gold dust, Jacob?

Jacob Silj: OH, IT'S FUNNY TO YOU! IMAGINE, IF YOU WILL, COLIN, A LIFE IN WHICH YOU HOLD YOUR BABY DAUGHTER IN YOUR ARMS AND TRY TO EASE HER BACK TO SLEEP! [cradles an imaginary baby in his arms] HUSH HUSH! GO TO SLEEP! DADDY LOVES YOU! ... OR IMAGINE YOU'RE AT CHURCH WHISPERING A SECRET AND SILENT PRAYER TO GOD! [clasps hands in prayer] "OH, PLEASE, DEAR GOD! WHY HAVE YOU DONE THIS TO ME?! PLEASE TAKE AWAY THIS TERRIBLE AFFLICTION! AND ALSO LET ME FIND A BAG OF MONEY!" THAT IS MY HELL, COLIN! ... I WOULDN'T WISH IT ON ANYONE! MAYBE ON YOU, COLIN, BUT NO ONE ELSE! ...

Colin Quinn: Hey! Hey, that's mean!

Jacob Silj: I APOLOGIZE! THAT LAST PART WAS ACTUALLY MUTTERED UNDER MY BREATH! ... BUT I CAN'T MUTTER UNDER MY BREATH, CAN I?! ... YOU JERK! THAT WAS UNDER MY BREATH ALSO! YOU ASS!

Colin Quinn: Just stop--

Jacob Silj: UNDER MY BREATH AGAIN!

Colin Quinn: Will you stop, Jacob?

Jacob Silj: I THINK I WILL, COLIN! I THINK I WILL!

Maryn and Brynna are notorious for being habitual loud-talkers. One day when we were driving in the van together and the girls were being especially loud, Justin and I decided to turn the tables a little bit. We started shout-talking lines from the Voice Immodulation skit. The girls were totally baffled. Maryn kept asking "Why are you talking so loud?" to which we replied "HOW DARE YOU! I SUFFER FROM A DISEASE!" I guess you had to be there, but it was hilarious to give them a taste of their own medicine. Thank you Jacob Silj, for giving us a name (and now a really awesome inside joke) for our children's horrible affliction.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Techno-Less

Well as you may have noticed, I haven't been posting as often. It's because my Dad's old laptop that he was letting me use, died awhile back. And Justin is in his busy travel season with work and has to take his with him or be on it all day when he's home. So I've been computerless! I thought I'd go through crazy withdrawals. But it's actually been okay, I've been able to get more stuff done without it. So for now, my posts will be fewer and further between. I'll try to keep you posted on any exciting stuff when I can though!

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Bowling Night!

Justin and I took the kids bowling for Family Home Evening last night. It was their first time and I don't think either Justin and I had been in over ten years. All I have to say is, both of the girls beat me! If you watch the video below of Maryn it will give you an idea of just how bad I was! We had a great time though! Maryn and Brynna would high five and cheer even if only one pin was knocked over! To them that was a success worth celebrating! I like the way they think! I think next time I won't even play, I had way more fun just watching them being so excited about every little thing!
I couldn't figure out how to flip the video. Sorry!

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Random Thought

I really love, as do Maryn and Brynna, The Little Einsteins. It's a great little show and I know if my kids are watching it they're being entertained as well as being taught something. However, I have one random little irk about it. The little yellow-haired character Annie's special talent is that she loves to sing. She's always singing her way through the missions with Rocket, Leo, Quincy and June. The only problem is, is that the actor who does her voice really can't sing! It's like airy, flat, fingernails on a chalkboard. I guess I'll suck it up and overlook it for the shows many other redeeming qualities, but sheesh, who did the casting on that one?!

Saturday, April 5, 2008

My Southern Love...Savannah

As mentioned in my previous post, Savannah is a love of mine. One of my favorite memories with Justin from our early married years, was sitting in one of the lush, green, historical squares of Savannah at dusk, on a park bench. It seemed like we were the only people there, the only people in the world. Sitting beneath the mysterious limbs of trees that had stories to tell. Feeling the comfortable warmth of the summer night on our skins. We stared at the historical houses surrounding the square and together we dreamed. We dreamed of leaving our lives, our jobs, school, everything we knew and moving to Savannah. Just the two of us. We could rent a basement apartment in one of these cool, old houses and start over. And when the cares of the world threatened the peace of our dream, all we would have to do is step out our front door and sit upon a simple park bench and let Savannah work her magic on us again.

Savannah really is magic, to us at least. As you drive into the downtown area, you go through tunnels of those amazing, ancient oak trees. With great, gnarled roots that testify of their history. Reaching branches, surrounding you, adorned with Spanish moss draped from their lovely branches, like the shawl of some beautiful debutant of times since past. As you drive, the breeze blows in through your open windows, kissing your face. Those trees and those great Southern homes in which so many lives have been lived, whisper to you and something happens. It is almost as if you are transported to another place in time. Certainly another place of mind. You gaze at the wide, welcoming porches and can imagine yourself sitting there, in the shade of a warm, Southern day, sipping something cool. For the girl who is constantly trying to make sure all her bases are covered and all the i's are dotted and t's are crossed, I feel myself relax. Content, peaceful, at ease. I could wander those streets with hardly any money in my pocket and just be content to soak in Savannah's soothing lullaby.

This weekend, was the first time I have been with my children. I think what added to the magic was that the girls felt Savannah and her calming welcome the same way that Justin and I do. To be honest, it made my heart swell with pride. They too, were content with the simple pleasures that Savannah had to offer. They oohed and ahhed over the architecture of the buildings and the trees. They relished getting to watch the ships come in down on River Street while indulging in the perfect texture of warm hush puppies.

They found delight in wandering the candy shops, watching pralines and taffy being made. Never once throwing a fit to buy the goodies that filled the display cases so abundantly. We enjoyed eating gelato and watching pigeons come to see if we had anything to offer. We saw their smiles and heard their giggles and little voices saying "I just love my family!"

We all had our favorite parts of the trips. For Maryn and Brynna it was playing in the waves, collecting seashells and building sandcastles on the beaches of Tybee Island.


Ray Lamontagne was our soundtrack on the drive to Tybee.
His voice is perfection.

Maryn kept running around yelling "If you're excited make a seagull sound!"

They even walk the same. Two peas in a pod!

I just love this guy!

We watched the ocean reclaim our sandcastle.
I guess we'll just have to come back and build another one next year!

The girls also were just tickled that the couch in our hotel room turned into a magic bed just for them! They thought they must be really special to get such a fun bed!

Justin being a lover of history, loved walking the hills and tunnels of Fort Pulaski. Tasting what it must have been like to have been alive during the Civil War. The girls quietly sat and listened to the park ranger, dressed in his Confederate soldier's uniform, as he told us the Fort's history in his slow, attention-grabbing Southern accent.

Endless exploration was to be found.


The highlight for all of us as a family, but me especially, was eating at Mrs. Wilkes. I planned the entire trip around this place. Savannah is not complete without it. They are only open Monday-Friday from 11-2. They take no reservations or credit cards. People line up for blocks around 10 am outside the humble, basement door of a beautiful historical house, waiting, hoping, they can make it inside. As you stand on the street, the smells of what is to come fills the air, and you find yourself willing to wait forever if you can just get inside for a taste.

Maryn passed the time waiting teasing and dancing around.
Brynna coped in the usual way, the thumb and Coco!

"It's still not our turn?!"

When you finally make it through the door, you feel like you have won the lottery as you are ushered to large, family-style tables, where you sit side-by-side with complete strangers. Before you, glasses already filled with sweet tea, a Southern staple. A member of Mrs. Wilkes', who has since passed away, original staff comes out and informs you that the food has been blessed, but to feel free to bless it again if you like. She then asks if anyone would like water rather than tea and then brings out bowl upon bowl of the most delicious Southern fare that will ever grace your lips. Fried chicken, beef stew, barbecue pork, Lima beans, snap beans, black-eyed peas, creamed corn, okra and tomatoes, peas and noodles, sweet potatoes, collard greens, marinated cucumbers, cornbread and on and on and on. We must have had 15-20 bowls of food that was darn near close to a religious experience for me. You find yourself in easy conversation with those around you, who were just minutes before, strangers on the street. By meals end, I found myself reluctantly leaving the table, but knowing other souls were waiting in the street for their little slice of heaven. You clear your own plate and bid your new friends goodbye and off you go, back out into the streets with a full belly and a soaring outlook on life. Again, I had a moment of swelling pride watching my girls at Mrs. Wilkes. They yummed and asked for seconds of foods other kids their age would turn their noses at. There was nothing I offered them that they turned down. Not only did my girls get the magic of Savannah, they got the magic of Mrs. Wilkes. Never was there a prouder Momma.

Sooooo GOOD!


I told Justin, as parents we tend to think our vacations need to be expensive, elaborate, in-your-face, extravaganzas of stimulation. Full of souvenirs and mass quantities of picture posing, because it's through these things that memories are made. Or so we think. This weekend proved to me that what our children really want is our time. The undivided attention from their parents that the busyness of everyday life can steal from them. What they really want, is to have you hold their hand. To walk down a street and talk to them and listen to them and see the world through their eyes. To point out all that is beautiful and all that we have to be grateful for. I saw my daughter's happiness bloom this weekend and all we came home with as a memory of our trip was a pocket full of seashells and a knowledge that Young's truly love each other.

Friday, April 4, 2008

No 3x5's Today

Today was perfection. We decided to sneak away to one of my most favorite places on earth, Savannah, GA. We also spent some time on Tybee Island soaking up sun and playing in the surf. It was so wonderful to be able to be together as a family, without any distractions. Just us, loving every moment of being together, being a family. I told Justin that I was just hungry to soak in every memory, every emotion and never forget how I felt at that moment. The sunlight, the tastes, the feelings of the day. I don't think I'll ever be able to describe just how Savannah makes me feel. It's really something magical you just have to experience for yourself. "Maybe I will tell you all about it..." after we get home and share some 3x5's, but for now I'll leave you with the words of one of my favorite songs...